The TeaHaus System is a DID system made up of 23+ members, with about 7 alters active at any given time. When referring to us collectively, please use plural they/them prounouns. Otherwise, please use the pronouns of the alter that's fronting. If you don't know, feel free to ask us! We don't mind. Please do not refer to us as "plural" or "you&". We find these terms to be uncomfortable, as our personal history with plural has been bad, and "you&" implies the importance of one alter (usually the host) over another, which we do not feel is productive to our healing journey.
We are bodily Asian and identify as brown. We are also ethnically Jewish although some of us have our own personal religious preferences. We are physically disabled and neurodivergent. We prefer to not communicate privately with minors unless there is a clear expectation of mentorship through formal channels.